In my view, if he is not in love enough to have kids by then, you need to find a more kids-oriented man. Artificial fertilization is very costly per attempt. I would have never waited until I was close to 40 to have a baby. And also a very large age-gap there bordering on "grandparent" age.If I am not pregnant by early 30s, maybe even late 20s, I'm going to a sperm bank with the best possible donor and breaking up with whatever butthole I'm with who doesn't want to give me children. But, if successful, there still are pregnancy complications for women in their 40s. If you have a child at 40, you'll be 50 when it's 10; 55 when it's 15; and 60 when it's 20. Hypothetical health child born to first time parents at age 42. But, if successful, there still are pregnancy complications for women in their 40s. But, if successful, there still are pregnancy complications for women in their 40s. Artificial fertilization is very costly per attempt. Artificial fertilization is very costly per attempt.“But I haven’t been able to.”Like so many modern singles, Jane has turned to the Internet.First, she tried in 2006 when she lived in Pennsylvania. When it came to kids, she says, “everyone I was matched with already had them or wanted them.” She says Match lacked a good feature for sorting out those guys who want kids.
I’m willing to take a risk by contacting women who list that they are “not sure” about wanting children.without having to plan, get a babysitter, or worry about the child. I enjoy a quiet and chaos free home life and I love being able to go out to concerts, plays/musicals, movies, etc.without having to plan, get a babysitter, or worry about the child. Seems like you've done all you can really do at this point.Just keep on posting on the dating sites, being really clear and upfront with the "no kids" requirement and you'll eventually come across a few women who want what you want.They are not in the majority, but they are out there. It's like throwing a hundred darts at a dart board - ONE of them will eventually hit the bulls eye What have you done outside of dating sites to meet women?When it comes to meeting men, Jane faces a bit of a challenge.